I don’t remember or recall whether I have discussed this interesting observation of mine. But in any case, I am sharing it.
I have observed this in almost all the marriages, so do let me know if you agree or disagree with my observation.
Every couple have something opposite between the two. Like one is more mature than the other, one is more stable in different aspect than the other etc etc.
It’s always been something that trigger’s the button of discontent.
If both of them finds this trigger button, and accept the other the way the person is. Both will have a happy life. Since this trigger button is such, that the person have no control upon it. Like my wife is older than me, I am happy the way she is, it didn’t bothered me, but for people it does. My wife have this back in mind that I have compromised. But it’s that we are happy the way we are.
Similarly, couple have to find this trigger button of the other and accept it, else what I observed one thing led to others. Some people don’t like kids, the trigger point usually is this.
I hope I make sense, as to what I wanted to convey. Let me know your opinion about it, after looking at your end. Is this really the case!