The value of women can hardly be truly valued until you have a sense of compassion, the eagerness to know the secret, the value of others on one person and a heart to be open and not closed centered.

I came across an email which really touch this aspect, an aspect not truly defined or if it’s defined then not in true sense what should be.

A women which has been targeted so ruthlessly that even they don’t know what true gift has been taken from them.

Women in the name of love, beauty, sex, complex creature and a symbol of compromise has been carefully targeted to lose that greatness of wonder that she can cater, a creation of God that has been directed to such direction in the name of independence and self dependent.

Women in my view are not created for being independent and self dependent, instead they are made like water for cement. Without water a cement cant work alone. They are such if you put in a glass they shape themselves in it. If you put in a ice-cube they become ice.

A women with true spirit, right frame of mind and character, take things to the depth, understand the consequences of the act, and knows what she is responsible for, can greatly change the course of the planet.

Islam, present to the women what they really are, why they have been created, these days this concept has been targeted to it’s extent. Take the example of today’s media, they have been portrayed as a medium to sell things, has been put / displayed / made / labeled as a model. A person who has been deprived of food in order to look pretty. A person who if compare it with a drought hit victim is no more. A person in order to stay in the work has to mingle in parties with drugs, alcohol and have to give undue favor. In order to excel in career has to show off or in other words sell off her dignity which while in public she might resist.

I cannot really grasp the greatness of a women till now, today this email, showed me such that I understand. And it’s because of this reason that I guess I had something in my heart while choosing a lady. I have some principles and values that I address. And today when I read this email gives me the answer  to any question that will come up to me.

I will first copy paste in Urdu Language and then the translation in English for much larger audience.

السلامُ علیکم و رحمۃ اللہ و برکاتہ

اولاد کیلئے دُعا


ہمارے ہر دلعزیز اور پیارے شیخ صاحب کا سنایا ہوا یہ مختصر سا قصہ ہر ماں کیلئے ایک کھلا خط ہے۔

شیخ صاحب فرماتے ہیں کہ اے ماؤں، اپنے اولاد کے بارے میں اللہ سے ڈرتی رہو۔ چاہے کتنا ہی غصہ کیوں نہ ہو اُن کیلئے منہ سے خیر کے کلمے ہی نکالا کرو۔ اولاد کو لعن طعن، سب و شتم اور بد دعائیں دینے والی مائیں سُن لیں کہ والدین کی ہر دُعا و بد دُعا قبول کی جاتی ہے۔

یہ سب باتیں شیخ صاحب نے جمعہ کے خطبہ میں اپنے بچپن کی باتیں دہراتے ہوئے فرمائیں۔ شیخ صاحب فرماتے ہیں کہ ایک دفعہ ایک لڑکا ہوا کرتا تھا، اپنے ہم عُمر لڑکوں کی طرح شرارتی اور چھوٹی موٹی غلطیاں کرنے والا۔ مگر ایک دن شاید غلطی اور شرارت ایسی کر بیٹھا کہ اُسکی ماں کو طیش  آگیا، غصے سے بھری ماں نے لڑکے کو کہا (غصے سے بپھر جانے والی مائیں الفاظ پر غور کریں) لڑکے کی ماں نے کہا؛ چل بھاگ اِدھر سے، اللہ تجھے حرم شریف کا اِمام بنائے۔  یہ بات بتاتے ہوئے شیخ صاحب پھوٹ پھوٹ کر رو دیئے،  ذرا ڈھارس بندھی تو رُندھی ہوئی آواز میں بولے؛ اے اُمت اِسلام، دیکھ لو  وہ شرارتی لڑکا میں کھڑا ہوا ہوں  تمہارے سامنے  اِمام حرم عبدالرحمٰن السدیس۔

اللہ اَکبر، اگر وہ شرارتی لڑکا شیخ عبدالرحمٰن السدیس حفظہ اللہ صاحب بذاتِ خود ہو سکتے ہیں جو ماں کی دعا کی بدولت حرم شریف کے ہر دلعزیز  اِمام بن کر عالم اِسلام میں دھڑکنے والے ہر دِل پر راج کر رہے ہیں!!!  اِس طرح تو واقعی  یہ

مختصر سا  قِصہ ہر ماں کیلئے ایک درسِ عبرت ہے ۔

Our beloved and loving scholar Sheikh Sudaas of Makkah ul Mukarramah has mentioned this small story, which is like an open letter to every mother

The Sheikh said O mothers, for the sake of your children be afraid from your Lord, No matter how angry you are don’t take out bad sentences from your mouth for them.

Parents who scold their children day in and day out that whatever bad and ill fated sentences you take out for them will come in front of your children towards them one day.

All this the Sheikh has mentioned in one of the sermons of the Friday congregation in Haram one day, while remembering the childhood events of him

The Sheikh said that there used to be one boy, like his age group kids he too used to be very naughty and do various type of such acts on and off. But one day he did such an act that his mother got frustrated and become very angry, the mother who is very angry on her kid, (Usually moms don’t pay attention what they say to the children when they are angry) said that, “Go run away from here, Allah Subhan Waa Taalah / God will make you the highest priest / scholar of the Holy Masjid / Mosque of the Muslim Community. Sheikh after mentioning this started crying profoundly. When he was able to control his emotions, the Sheikh said, people of my Ummah, see I am that naughty boy. I am Sheikh of the Haram Makkah Mukarramah.

Allah O Akhbar, Allah be glorified, if a boy like Sheikh Abdul Rehman Sudais can be of that calibre who with the help of his mother prayers can become the highest, honorable and loving priest of the Holy Masjid, who can soften the heart from his recitation of a million people easily across the globe and lives in the heart and soul of almost every Muslim. Then this small story can really be a lesson to every mother of the planet.

3 Replies to “Women”

  1. Well-said about woman No one knows about woman. abbb woh MAA ho behan ho biwi ho beti ho ya app ki koyi dossst.Aurat aik samder hain us ki under.woh BOHUT KUCH HIDE rakhti hain. Woman Love knows no limit to its endurance, no end to its trust, no fading of its hope; it can outlast anything. Woman Love still stands when all else has fallen.”

    The study of women in Islam investigates the role status of women within the religion of Islam. The complex relationship between women and Islam is defined by both Islamic texts and the history and culture of the Muslim world. While men and women have different roles within Islam, the Qur’an makes it clear that they are equal.
    Sharia (Islamic law) provides for differences between women’s and men’s roles, rights, and obligations. Majority Muslim countries give women varying degrees of rights without regards to marriage, divorce, civil rights, legal status, dress code, and education based on different interpretations. Scholars and other commentators vary as to whether they are just and whether they are a correct interpretation of religious imperatives. Conservatives argue that differences between men and women are due to different status, while liberal Muslims, Muslim feminists, and others argue in favor of other interpretations. Some women have achieved high political office in Muslim majority states.

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